Back in the day, when social media was not even a twinkle in its developer's eye, the internet was wild and free. Anyone could make a website about absolutely anything, and a lot of people did just that. My first website was named "Ribbon" as that was my username for Demon, a dial-up ISP. I had had to come up with a word on the spot as a username and I don't know why ribbon was the first thing I thought of! But my first site was Ribbon, and was hosted on the 5mb of space that Demon gave its customers. After that I discovered Geocities and Fortunecity and there was no holding me back!

There was a certain style, a convention, in websites made by women in those days. There would be pages on one's family and pets, interests and hobbies. And there were dozens of social groups setting up to provide friendly communities. Geocities had a women's section, Wellelsy, and my first site was there. In 1999 my sister bought me my first domain for my birthday and I had it pointed to my Geocities site. In those days private hosting was ruinously expensive and Paypal was not as ubiquitous as it is now. So I relied on free webspace at a whole host of Geocities-wanna-be's. I became a "neighbourhood guide" in the Paris district in Geocities, and had a similar role in two "Irish" districts in Fortunecity. We were given extra space and our duties involved visiting other people's websites in the sections we had been assigned to, and checking that the rules were being kept. I once had to report some nasty porn in Fortunecity, as I remember. Luckily not so nasty as to give me nightmares.

It is sad that eventually the love of money destroyed those happy, creative places. As you probably know, Geocities was sold to Yahoo who systematically stripped out everything that made it a fun place to build one's website. And they eventually closed Geocities. The same thing happened with Fortunecity. Both companies decided to concnetrate on paid hosting and on selling domains. The same thing happened with other website providers, such as Disney, and their "Go" webspace. The way was open for (shudder) social media and the boring phase of the internet began.

Boring? Well yes, given that most people are content with the likes of Facebook and Twitter, where they don't even have to think or do anything remotely approaching creativity. There are wordpress blogs, which tend to use the same half dozen templates. They are more interesting but they're not websites. Not as they used to be, not as they should be, back in the day of Web 1. As Wednesday said, in the eponymous TV series, "I find social media to be a soul-sucking void of meaningless affirmation", and I do agree! There are still places which offer free webspace, such as X10hosting, Neocities, and Altervista. But there are also a lot of companies who offer budget hosting with small prices, and often better support.

So, how do I build a website? I often begin with the look of it, creating the webset and if I've gone quite mad, the domain. I have rather too many of those and am trying to cut that number short. So I often use a subdomain instead. I have a website with X10Premium which allows subdomains to be created using one of their domains. x10.mx is my favourite. I make up the "usual" pages: about me, a page about the domain/site (where it's hosted, that sort of thing), updates, and links. I used to add a page for webrings, but no one does those any more. I get those ready and upload them. Then I can set about building the other pages. Pages about my interests, hobbies, family life, pets, places I've visited, the list is endless. There are so many topics that can be covered with a website page or several. Favourite bands, books, music, films, TV. You could probably think of more ideas. I upload those as I do them. One thing I always sort out as soon as I can is a guestbook. So that visitors can leave messages, tell me what they think of my site.

In the past it used to be easier to find an audience for my sites. I joined several women's groups and we'd visit each other's sites. I also joined some webcompetitions: Site Fights was the largest and most popular. Members would visit each other and leave messages in guestbooks. There are still a few competitions still going, but I have found that no one visits anyone's site, and no one leaves messages in guestbooks. The community aspect of groups and competitions used to be very important. Now it is difficult to find one's community. But that is no reason to give up!